He had hidden his addiction to pornography from his wife, Rhyll, and their family for years. Now he had made up his mind; he was determined to come forward. It was the hardest thing he had ever done.
To this day, the words "I need to talk to you" still burn in Sister Croshaw's mind.
"I told her essentially everything. ... It was this huge shock to her. She had no idea."
Simply said, Sister Croshaw was "blown away." She wondered what had happened to her life.
"I was very quiet and cried a little bit. I thought, 'I don't know what to do about this.' "