Breaking Bad Habits
"First we make our habits, and then our habits make us." - John Dryden.
Bad habits can be like an addictive drug—poisonous and tough to beat. The beginning of the year is the perfect time to make a goal to rid yourself of your destructive behaviors—whether your goal be to eliminate all of them or whether it be to take baby steps in that direction. Start by becoming aware of the habits in your life you could do away with and recognize your life is better off without them. Make realistic goals and reward yourself for achieving them. Isn’t it about time you grew your nails out, stopped blaming others for a bad situation, and actually took your makeup off before going to bed?
Bad Habit #1: Nail Biting
Nail biting is called an anxiety stress reducer—it’s something you do to make your stress go away. “People are just looking for something to do to reduce their stress,” says Dr. James MacArthur, psychologist and director of the BYU Counseling Center. “If it works, they might do it again next time.” But when the stressor is gone, the habit is still exists because of reinforcement, and your poor fingernails are chewed down to non-existence.
How to fix it: “The solution is to...
Some other habits discussed in this article include:
Bad Habit #2: Perfectionism
Bad Habit #3: Late-Night Snacking
Bad Habit #6: Gossiping
Bad Habit #9: Sleeping with Makeup On
etc...
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