Here's a summary of three new family attitudes

Over the last three weeks, we have proposed serendipity as an alternative to control, stewardship as an alternative to ownership, and "synergicity" as an alternative to independence. While we are all for control, ownership and independence as economic and political principles, we believe that when it comes to the personal spiritual standards by which we live and through which we view the world, serendipity, stewardship and synergicity are much better and produce greater happiness. They also make us better and more caring (and more inspired) parents. We call these three 11-letter "S" words the Three Alternatives to the Three Deceivers.

Today's short poem is an attempt to summarize the differences between living life by the three deceivers and living life by the three alternatives. Neither way is bad; it's just that we think one way is better than the other.

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