My oldest boy went on a mission two years ago. He and I had a pretty good connection and both were strong in the gospel. Just before he was to leave I found out that my husband had been having another affair. I told him I would not do anything about this until my son got home. Then, once that time had passed, I felt like there was nothing I could do but live with it.
My oldest daughter has had some struggles. She has tried a few drugs, had some bad friends and been very disrespectful and mean to myself, my husband and my other children.