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9 Ways Church Members Can Help Fight Child Abuse

During His mortal ministry, Jesus Christ taught that many people—even those who had never met Him—had provided Him with life-sustaining service. In response to the confused queries that followed this teaching, the Savior simply said, “Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me” (Matthew 25:37, 40).

What did Christ mean by “the least of these?” The Savior and his apostles, both ancient and modern, have repeatedly addressed the importance of protecting children. Is any need greater, any plight more desperate, than that of an abused child? Just a few weeks ago, presiding Bishop Gary E. Stevenson said that the issue is “really [the Church’s] highest priority.” Bishop Stevenson and other Church leaders had just toured the Children’s Justice Center (CJC) in Salt Lake and donated $100,000 to the fight against child abuse.

This is an issue that many among us feel strongly about, but don’t always know how to help with. Here are nine ways we as members of the Church can follow the example of our leaders in providing much-needed assistance unto “the least of these.”

Donate Money

When it comes to charitable donation, the amount doesn’t matter nearly as much as the intent. It’s also important to keep in mind that paying a full tithe and generous fast offering does not necessarily exempt you from making other donations as you are able. Elder Jeffrey R. Holland said in a recent conference address that “we are to do what we can when others are in need.”

Joseph Osmond, an attorney and Church member who serves on the CJC’s advisory board, said, “Sometimes there’s a culture . . . in which a [Church] member will only devote time or money or energy to the Church, or to Church programs.” He continued, “But with the recent tour and donation, it’s clear that the Church loves this program. It’s our hope that other Church members can also see we are partners here.” 

Programs like the CJC exist in almost every area in the United States.  In most states, the CJC is referred to as the Children’s Advocacy Center. Members who feel strongly about these issues may consider following the Church’s example and providing their local child abuse treatment facilities with financial support. 

Find out more about how to donate here.

Volunteer

For those financially unable to donate, there are ways to join the cause that are equally helpful. The CJC program has 22 locations in the state of Utah, and similar establishments known as Children’s Advocacy Centers are available nationwide. Unfortunately, there’s all too much work for them to do—the Salt Lake facilities alone served over 1,600 victims in 2014. To make matters more complicated, the CJC is only partially funded by the government. That means they rely heavily on donations and community involvement to fulfill their purpose.

“I often have people ask me why we aren’t completely funded by the government,” said Tracy Tabet, the administrator for Utah’s statewide CJC program. “Having a community that’s invested in the local center . . . sends a very powerful message. The success of the model really lies in the fact that it’s a public-private partnership. Everybody has a role to play, and frankly, everyone has a responsibility.”

For more information on volunteering, click here.

Get the Youth Involved

It’s not just the adults who can get involved. Many an Eagle Scout has completed their project in collaboration with the CJC. “We’ve had people donate stuffed animals, make blankets, and do painting projects,” said Mitchell. “This sort of involvement is truly invaluable.” CJC facilities can also be toured—a great idea for a Mutual activity. 

The tours detail what a parent and child might experience when they enter the facility. In the Salt Lake establishment, a playroom puts the children at ease before their interview with a detective. A beautiful mural lines the walls of the hallway that leads to three rooms (the Butterfly room, the Surfing room, and the Bluebird room). Children get to pick which of the three rooms they’re most comfortable in, and then they have a one-on-one talk with a trained professional. “In this environment,” said Mitchell, “a child really opens up. They’ve been through a lot and we want them to feel comfortable here.”

These tours, besides being educational and instructive, can open the collective eyes of a youth group to a serious problem which they may not have previously given much thought to.

Teach Safety Tips

Keeping yourself safe may seem intuitive, but it’s actually something that children need to be taught. Sure, a child might figure out through experience not to touch a hot stove, but damage will be done in the process. Just as a stove can’t be untouched, abuse can’t be undone—and without treatment, the resulting pain can last a lifetime. Here are some tips the CJC recommends teaching children to make them more proactive in ensuring their own safety.

Use the buddy system whenever you are away from home—always keep a friend with you wherever you go.

If someone is doing something they shouldn’t or tries to hurt you, tell them to STOP, then tell your parents or tell someone you trust.

Use your courage to speak up. Everyone has courage and the more you use it, the more it works for you.

Be assertive and confident—it makes it harder for someone to take advantage of you.

Trust your instincts. If something doesn’t seem right, it probably isn’t and it is best to avoid that situation.

You never have to keep a secret from your parents. Tell them if something happened that upset or scared you.

Don’t ever give out personal information over the internet. Don’t tell people your name, phone number, school, address, or even the state you live in.

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