Marriage takes work. This is old news, but many couples in the throes of infertility don’t expect marriages to struggle more while going through fertility treatments, or attempting the adoption process. And then finally, if LDS couples decide to stop pursuing children, many are surprised to find out that there are special struggles in store for them as they attempt to decipher how to live life as a family of two in a church focused strongly on nuclear families (father, mother, children).