Jonathan Decker, LMFT

Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: How can I make time for self-care without guilt?

September 01, 2023 06:55 AM MDT

We try to follow the Savior’s admonition to love and serve another so much that we sometimes forget that, in the commandment to “love thy neighbor as thyself,” there is an overlooked commandment to love ourselves!

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Latter-day Saint therapist: 7 principles amazing fathers practice

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

June 13, 2023 01:28 PM MDT

"In both my personal and professional opinion, my dad got this fatherhood thing pretty much figured out. Allow me to share seven fatherhood lessons that I learned from him (along with a few of my own thoughts)."

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: My husband doesn’t even try to provide for us

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

May 10, 2023 12:11 PM MDT

“My husband has been unemployed for several years, and I don’t see him making any efforts to provide for us. How can I overcome my resentment?”

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: I’m struggling to keep boundaries with an abuser

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

February 15, 2022 01:25 PM MST

My father was abusive to me as a child. He’s expressed remorse, but I don’t really want to be around him. He accuses me of holding a grudge. Am I in the wrong?

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5 gospel-based ways to keep your New Year’s resolutions

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

January 05, 2022 10:00 AM MST

When it comes to self-improvement, it seems that “the spirit is indeed willing but the flesh is weak.” So how do we overcome weakness to fulfill our goals?

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: How do I manage grief while looking forward to eternity?

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

March 05, 2021 03:30 PM MST

While knowledge of the plan of salvation provides comfort and hope, the absence of someone loved is deeply felt. And it’s good to feel it, even if it doesn’t feel good. How can we best manage those feelings?

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: What is compatibility?

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

February 08, 2021 10:56 AM MST

Q: I’m single and dating to try and find my match. What does it mean to be compatible? How do I know if I’ve found a match that will last?

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: My ex abused our children, should I tell his bishop?

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

January 22, 2021 12:00 PM MST

Editor's Note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: My loved one physically hurt someone I love

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

December 31, 2020 12:00 PM MST

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Ask a Latter-day Saint Therapist: I'm a single female over 50 in the church and struggling with my circumstances—how can I better cope?

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

November 27, 2020 12:00 PM MST

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: Can I overcome my eating disorder through faith alone?

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

November 13, 2020 04:25 PM MST

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: How do I navigate inconsistent behavior from my spouse?

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

October 30, 2020 04:22 PM MDT

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: I’m a Jewish convert and some of my ward members are anti-Semitic

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

September 18, 2020 03:34 PM MDT

Q: Please tell me how I can get rid of my anger toward certain members of the ward I belong to. They told me I killed Jesus Christ because I was born and raised Jewish.

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: How can I manage my anger?

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

August 21, 2020 01:15 PM MDT

Editor's note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: I can’t stop looking at pornography

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

August 07, 2020 01:42 PM MDT

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: What does infidelity recovery look like?

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

July 24, 2020 11:00 AM MDT

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Ask a Latter-day Saint therapist: Should we have attended our unmarried granddaughter’s baby shower?

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

June 26, 2020 02:39 PM MDT

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Ask a Latter-day Saint Therapist: My relative gossips about my spouse

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

June 12, 2020 02:24 PM MDT

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Ask a Latter-day Saint Therapist: My Husband Thinks He Doesn’t Have to Do Housework

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

December 12, 2019 09:24 PM MST

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Jonathan Decker: The Tragedy in Mexico, Our True Enemy, and Compassion in the Last Days

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

November 08, 2019 11:00 AM MST

Author's Note: I wrote this in place of my "Ask a Latter-day Saint Therapist" article this week. It was written for those both within and outside of our faith. My normal column will return next week.

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Latter-day Saint Movie Review: "Christmas Jars" Is a Charming, Inspiring Christmas Movie

By Jonathan Decker, LMFT

November 04, 2019 02:13 PM MST

Co-produced by BYU-TV, this well-acted adaptation of The New York Times bestseller Christmas Jars is in over 800 theaters nationwide tonight (November 4th) only, hosted by Fathom Events. Charming, wholesome, and inspiring, those looking to kick off the holiday season with the spirit of giving may want to make time for this. Read my review below and get tickets in your area here.

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