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September 01, 2023 06:55 AM MDT
We try to follow the Savior’s admonition to love and serve another so much that we sometimes forget that, in the commandment to “love thy neighbor as thyself,” there is an overlooked commandment to love ourselves!
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February 15, 2022 01:25 PM MST
My father was abusive to me as a child. He’s expressed remorse, but I don’t really want to be around him. He accuses me of holding a grudge. Am I in the wrong?
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March 05, 2021 03:30 PM MST
While knowledge of the plan of salvation provides comfort and hope, the absence of someone loved is deeply felt. And it’s good to feel it, even if it doesn’t feel good. How can we best manage those feelings?
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February 08, 2021 10:56 AM MST
Q: I’m single and dating to try and find my match. What does it mean to be compatible? How do I know if I’ve found a match that will last?
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January 22, 2021 12:00 PM MST
Editor's Note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.
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December 31, 2020 12:00 PM MST
Editor's Note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.
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November 13, 2020 04:25 PM MST
Editor's Note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.
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October 30, 2020 04:22 PM MDT
Editor's Note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.
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September 18, 2020 03:34 PM MDT
Q: Please tell me how I can get rid of my anger toward certain members of the ward I belong to. They told me I killed Jesus Christ because I was born and raised Jewish.
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August 07, 2020 01:42 PM MDT
Editor's Note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.
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July 24, 2020 11:00 AM MDT
Editor's note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.
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May 29, 2020 12:00 PM MDT
Editor's note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.
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April 17, 2020 12:00 PM MDT
Editor's note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.
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February 28, 2020 12:30 PM MST
Editor's Note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.
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February 14, 2020 01:00 PM MST
Three Latter-day Saint therapists recently shared with us their thoughts about how to approach dating in an age that is increasingly virtual.
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December 12, 2019 09:24 PM MST
Editor's Note: The views, information, or opinions expressed in this column are solely those of the author. Readers should consider each unique situation. This content is not meant to be a substitute for individual, professional advice.
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October 25, 2019 01:50 PM MDT
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September 20, 2019 09:03 AM MDT
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September 07, 2019 12:16 AM MDT
“No matter how much I do for my children, no matter how much I give, they always want more. They’re demanding and rude if they don’t get their way. There’s no gratitude.”
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August 16, 2019 01:32 PM MDT
Whether it’s art imitating life or vice versa, society at large seems to agree with a prevalent theme of pop culture: nice guys and good girls are boring while bad boys and wild girls are attractive and exciting. Allow me to challenge this frothy fiction with the potency of reality: there is nothing more attractive than someone with a strong conscience.
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August 02, 2019 01:15 PM MDT
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July 26, 2019 05:30 PM MDT
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July 12, 2019 02:30 PM MDT
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June 07, 2019 12:36 PM MDT
President Howard W. Hunter taught that “tenderness and respect—never selfishness—must be the guiding principles in the intimate relationship between husband and wife. Each partner must be considerate and sensitive to the other’s needs and desires.”
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May 31, 2019 07:54 PM MDT
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May 24, 2019 05:00 PM MDT
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May 17, 2019 01:31 PM MDT
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May 10, 2019 01:29 PM MDT
“My mother passed away in 2006. She was a marvelous woman. I am reminded of Lincoln’s words: ‘All that I am or ever hope to be, I owe to my angel mother.’”
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April 26, 2019 12:14 PM MDT
If your life has been damaged by a partner’s infidelity, please join me for my “Healing From Infidelity” online class, free for LDS Living readers.
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April 19, 2019 12:34 PM MDT
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April 12, 2019 02:39 PM MDT
Author's note: the advice in this article is not meant to imply that we should shun those who have hurt our feelings or with whom we disagree. That is unavoidable, even in healthy relationships. The discussion of boundaries refers specifically to those who are abusive or have repeatedly or majorly violated our trust without sincere repentance. Thank you.
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April 05, 2019 09:21 AM MDT
For daily gospel-based relationship insights, join Jonathan’s Facebook group. To submit a confidential question, click here. Reposted with permission from Your Family Expert.
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March 29, 2019 01:52 PM MDT
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March 26, 2019 01:37 PM MDT
If your marriage has been rocked by an affair, join me for my free online Healing From Infidelity course for LDS Living readers.
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February 28, 2019 10:00 PM MST
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February 22, 2019 02:58 PM MST
Note: This article contains a frank, though not crass, discussion of intimacy. If your marital intimacy is struggling because of pornography or infidelity, please sign up for my online course, free for LDS Living readers.
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February 08, 2019 05:09 PM MST
If you’re suffering from a spouse’s betrayal, I’m offering a free online course for LDS Living readers to help you through it.
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February 01, 2019 04:00 PM MST
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January 25, 2019 03:28 PM MST
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January 22, 2019 02:09 PM MST
Latter-day Saint couples affected by infidelity are invited to my upcoming online “Healing from Infidelity” course, free for LDS Living readers. Register here.
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January 18, 2019 02:51 PM MST
In a divorce, the pointing fingers, the family-wide division that comes when members side with one person over the other, and the sheer hurt of it all can be overwhelming.
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January 04, 2019 06:45 PM MST
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December 21, 2018 02:09 PM MST
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December 10, 2018 06:07 PM MST
This is part of an ongoing series on healing from infidelity. To reserve a spot in my free online class of the same name for LDS Living readers, click here.
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December 07, 2018 01:37 PM MST
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