Elders Jeffrey R. Holland and Quentin L. Cook of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles served as mission companions in the British Mission in the early 1960s. In a new video series created to accompany updates to My Plan: A Guide for the Returned Missionary and Mentor, the apostles discuss what it was like to be companions, and how missionaries can successfully transition to life at home.
Elder Holland and Elder Cook first met at a mission activity when they had both been serving only a few months. Elder Holland recalls that even then Elder Cook was “a legend.” The two would later become companions near the end of their missions when they served in leadership positions together. Of being Elder Holland’s companion Elder Cook says, “It was absolutely incredible. I think the Church has some kind of sense of the tremendous personality and spirituality that Elder Holland has and that was evident even when he was young.”
While serving together, both Elder Holland and Elder Cook were writing to the young women that would one day become their wives. Elder Holland shares that missionaries don’t need to feel guilty over thinking about life at home while still serving.
“You don’t have to stop living to go on a mission, you just have to focus,” he says. Later on, he adds, “When I first when out on mission tours and in zone conferences and missionary meetings, I never talked about home. I refused even to acknowledge that they had a home. If you’d listened to me you would have thought they were all orphans; they were never ever going home, because I didn’t want anybody to be trunky. But now with a little more maturity, and I hope a little more wisdom, I talk about home a lot with missionaries.”
My Plan is a program missionaries complete near the end of their service to help them make plans for their lives once their missions are complete. Available in Gospel Library under the Young Adults folder, My Plan helps missionaries set goals and connect with mentors after they return home. My Plan was recently updated to including the following adjustments:
- • Elders quorum and Relief Society presidents in the missionaries’ home ward will work with the returned missionary to select a mentor. The full name of My Plan was changed to reflect this change: My Plan: A Guide for the Returned Missionary and Mentor.
- • Guidelines for holding group meetings with recently returned missionaries are provided.
- • New videos from Elder Holland and Elder Cook are available to help missionaries understand how their service can prepare them for life.
- • The returning missionaries home stake presidents and bishops will receive a link to the missionary’s completed transition plan.
“I’m thrilled that we now have My Plan to help them get a vision a little bit of what they are going to do later on and that can be a great blessing,” says Elder Cook.
Elder Holland mentions some of the struggles he had when returning home from his mission and how My Plan could have been useful for him.
“When I came home my parents were actually away on a mission by then, and I came home to I didn’t know what. I had to find a place to live. I had to come up with a job, and my own money. And it was potentially kind of a shock to the system after a very regularized life in the mission to come home to chaos. To have had some concrete ideas about next steps, if nothing else, would have reduced my frustration,” says Elder Holland. He ends by saying, “My Plan, I think, is going to be a real blessing.”
My Plan can be found in Gospel Library in the Young Adults folder on churchofjesuschrist.org. The Serve and Prepare videos can be found in the Youth folder under Mission Preparation of the Gospel Library.