To give you a little bit of insight into my personal experiences, I almost got married last year. Unfortunately, my fiancé called the wedding just days before, leaving me wondering how I’d cope. I did. And you can read about that story here. I have no negative thoughts or opinions of him now, because I know his character well enough to be able to still think highly of him. The following are my own opinions and thoughts, from my participation in and later observation of the situation.