"When it comes to hating, gossiping, ignoring, ridiculing, holding grudges, or wanting to cause harm, please apply the following: Stop it!" President Uchtdorf said in April 2012 general conference. I think comparing easily fits on that list. But that's easier said than done. How do we really stop feeling insecure and comparing ourselves with others when we are surrounded by those behaviors on a day-to-day basis?